Are you a high school student who is new to dating?  If so, you need to familiarize yourself with the dos and don'ts of high school dating.  By doing so, you are less likely to suffer from embarrassment or upset a girl.

Asking for a Date

DO look beyond looks.  Of course, you want to date a girl that is attractive, but it is important to go for more.  Dating is not a popularity contest.  Being with the hottest girl in school is nice, but make sure she has a good personality too.  So look beyond looks.  Find a girl that has similar interests as you or one with a great personality.

DON'T use a girl.  As previously stated, you should ask a girl on a date because you like her.  For that reason, do not use a girl.  If you want to be popular, rely on your own personality to get you there, not a girl from school.  Only date girls that you truly like or have an interest in, not because she may increase your popularity ranking.

DO be confident.  When asking a girl on a date, confidence is important.  With that said, if you are nervous or excited, that is fine too.  The best approach to take is to just ask.  Don't spend hours worrying about how to ask or if she will say no.  Just say the words.  By doing so, your confidence will show.

DON'T be too confident.  Yes, confidence is good when asking a girl on a date, but it is important to use it in moderation.  Are you a popular student who is asking a quiet girl on a date?  You might assume she would love a date with you just because of who you are.  Yes, this may be true, but never let it show.  You can do a lot of damage by making a girl feel it is an honor to date you.

The Date

DO ask for suggestions.  Unless you asked your girl for a date by mentioning a movie you want to see, ask her for suggestions.  This approach is good if you barely know the girl in question.  Don't plan a day of hiking and a picnic if your date doesn't enjoy physical activity.

DON'T try to hard too impress her.  Many guys make mistakes on first dates.  This is okay and common.  One mistake you don't want to make is trying too hard to impress her.  Don't brag about all of your accomplishments.  Yes, you can mention the winning touchdown you scored at the last game, but do it once and then move on.

DO ask your date about her.  Not only should you avoid talking too much about yourself on a first date, but you should ask your date about her.  When doing so, be sure to avoid too many personal questions.  Are your date's parents divorced?  If so, don't ask her to go into more detail, as it is considered bad taste on the first date.

The Relationship

DON'T say I love you too soon.  In high school, a lot of couples exchange I love yous.  If you want to say it, go right ahead, but always proceed with caution.  Never say the phrase sooner than one month into your relationship and consider waiting longer.

DO have fun.  Of course, you can and should take a high school relationship seriously, but always remember to have fun.  If you and your girlfriend spend more time arguing than having fun, it is time to move on.  Relationships should be fun, so make sure yours is.

DON'T let a breakup consume you.  Relationships in high school are all about fun, not about finding your soul mate.  If that works great, but if not move on.  Find another girl you like and ask her on a date.  Just make sure she isn't friends with your ex-girlfriend.  That is a can of worms you don't want to open.

Did you ask a girl you like out on a date?  Did she say yes?  Right about now, you may be excited.  As your date approaches, your excitement may turn to nervousness.  What should I wear? How should I act?  Where should we go?  Continue reading on for a few helpful tips.

Planning the Date

When you asked the girl on a date, what did you say?  If you asked her to the movies, that is where you should go.  Do not change a date location without first speaking to her.  This is one of the fastest ways to ruin a first date.  If you want to sneak in dinner or a drinks, that is okay, but always live up to your words.  If you do make changes, discuss them in advance.

If you asked the girl if she would like to go out with you, but didn't provide her with a destination, start thinking about it now.  Don't decide at the last minute, as this may result in disaster.  The best first dates are those where you can have fun and get to know the girl.  Opt for movie and a dinner, an outdoor concert, a picnic, bowling, and so forth.  If you are still at a loss for ideas, ask her for suggestions.

There are two ways to arrive at a date, together or separate.  When possible, you want to drive your date.  She may not accept your offer, but at least make it. 

Preparing for Your Date

For most men, preparation begins a few hours before date time.  Yes, this is true, but think about costs.  If you are on a budget, you need to financially prepare for your date ahead of time.  You can prevent this from becoming a problem by opting for an affordable destination.  For example, don't choose a restaurant where you can't afford half the food on the menu.

Most guys prepare for a date by showering.  This is a small, but important step.  Show up clean.  If you don't think you will have enough time, try to leave work early, skip your afternoon at the gym, and so forth.  Do not assume that loading cologne on will hide your smell.  It may, but your date may also have a bad reaction to it.

The Date

You want to make a good first impression with your date.  The easiest way to do this is to arrive early.  Never be late for date.  If you will be late, call immediately.  Do not assume that all women are alike and running late.  Some women run on schedule.  Even still, you want to be on time even if you have to wait a few minutes for her.

The goal of a first date is to learn more about the one you are with.  For that reason, keep on talking.  Pauses in a conversation are common, but try to prevent them.  Ask your date questions and she should do the same.  If not, talk a little bit about you.

The most important thing to remember about first dates is that they aren't supposed to be perfect.  Rarely will a first date go 100% as planned.  There will always be awkward moments.  There will always be pauses in the conversation and one of you is likely to say something slightly embarrassing.  If your first date doesn't go as planned, don't panic.  Hopefully, you will have a second chance to make a good impression.

If you are gearing up for a first date, you may be nervous about the conversation.  First dates become extremely awkward when the wrong things are said or when nothing is said at all.  If topics of discussion on your first date are a fear of yours, continue reading on for a few suggestions.

In terms of first date conversations, it is best to plan.  When doing so, break the date down into three different categories.  These categories are beginning, middle, and end.  When you consider each part of your date, as opposed to the whole night, coming up with conversation ideas doesn't sound so hard.

As for the beginning of the date, it depends on how you start the night.  Did you pickup your date or meet her at the destination?  Regardless, opt for a quick greeting.  A simple "Hi, thank for coming," should be the first words out of your mouth.

If you pick a date up at her home, greet her inside and then ask if she is ready to go.  Once you get to the car, hold the door open for her.  Once inside, ask if she is comfortable.  If not, make steps to ensure she is.  If she is comfortable, she will likely follow it with something like "you have a nice car."  This is a good starting point.  You can mention when you bought it or how you got it for a great deal.  Then, ask her about her car.

Another good first date conversation in the car is about likes and dislikes.  Are you going to watch a movie?  Tell her you hope it is good.  Then, ask her what her favorite movie is.  If you don't know it, ask her to summarize it real quick.  You can take the same approach with favorite restaurants, bars, music groups, and so forth.

If you meet your date at the destination, such as dinner or a movie, ask how the trip was. Ask if she found the place okay.  Do this before asking if she is ready to go inside.

Once your date starts, you will be reaching the middle of the night.  This is where you want to get to know your date.  So, ask questions.  When doing so, don't dig too deep.  Ask about her family.  Does she have any siblings?  Ask about her job or college classes.  These questions always lead to conversation.  You can also use them to talk about yourself.  Does your date tell you she has a sister and then talk about her?  You can do the same, mention your family.

An awkward point in a date is the end.  If at a restaurant, you may be unsure when it call it a night.  If you are finished eating or drinking, see if your date is interested in doing something else.  Does she want to stop and have a few drinks or listen to a band at a local bar?  It won't hurt to ask.

A good date relies on good conversation.  This should take place throughout the entire date, but the words you utter at the end of the night have the most influence.  Be sure to say you had a good time.  You will also want to ask her for a second date.  If the date didn't go so well, you may be nervous about asking.  Instead of outright asking, say "You have my phone number.  Call if want to do this again."

Did you finally get around to asking that girl you have been eyeing on a date?  If so, when is the big day?  What do you have planned?  If you have yet to have your date or even start planning it, continue reading on for a helpful list of first date dos and don'ts.

DO pay for the date.  You asked; therefore, you should pay.  If the relationship grows and results in more dates, then consider alternating payment or splitting the bill, but for the first date, you should pay.  As for why this tops the list, it may require a little bit of savings on your part.  If you are a teenager with limited cash flow or if you opt for a fancy restaurant, you need to prepare ahead of time.

DON'T pour on the cologne.  Unfortunately, many guys think the more the cologne the better.  This isn't true!  Only splash a dap of cologne on you.  Even girls who don't have allergies will have reactions to strong cologne or too much of it.  So don't ruin your date; don't cover yourself in it.

DO wear something nice.  What you wear should depend on what type of date you plan.  For example, a long hike and a picnic may call for sport pants, but leave them at home if you opt for the movies.  Always wear clean clothes, but make sure you are comfortable.

DON'T go overdressed.  As stated above, you want to look nice for your upcoming date, but don't overdo it.  By overdressing, both you and your date will feel uncomfortable.  If you opt for a movie, a pair of nice jeans, kaki pants, and a clean shirt will do.  Unless you take your date to an elegant restaurant, leave the prom gear and eveningwear at home.

DO think of topics to discuss ahead of time.  First dates are awkward.  If you don't really know the girl, you may wonder which topics are okay to discuss on a first date.  If you do know the girl, you may be at a loss for words because well you already know her.  For that reason, think of topics to discuss in advance.  Popular news stories, movies, and sports are good topics.

DON'T apply too much pressure on yourself.  As previously stated, first dates are awkward.  Rarely are they 100% perfect.  There will be some weird and slightly embarrassing moments, no matter how hard you try.  For that reason, don't apply too much pressure on yourself.  In fact, just be yourself.

DO be yourself.  One of the reasons why first dates are awkward is because most of us try too hard to impress the one we are with.  Of course, you want to go out of your way to be polite, but that is about it.  If you aren't known for holding doors open for women or saying please and thank you, do it.  Being polite and showing respect is vital to a successful first date, but other than that just be yourself.

DON'T be late.  Whether you pick your date up or meet her at the destination, do not be late.  In fact, be early.  Making your date wait is the quickest way to ruin a first date, as well as a potential long-term relationship.

DO have fun.  Whether you are 16 years old or 46 years old, it is common to be nervous about a date.  You should take the time to plan and prepare for your date, by thinking of topics to discuss and making sure you have enough money to foot the bill, but don't let it consume you.  On your date, remember to be yourself, let loose, and have fun.

DON'T apply pressure for a second date.  At the end of your date, you may have had a good time, but that does not mean your date did.  If you want a second date, ask, but don't apply too much pressure.  Tell your date you had a lot of fun and that you would like to do it again.  Make sure she has your phone number and put the ball in their court.  Let her call if she is interested in a second date.

Are you a guy who just scored your first date with a new girl?  If so, you may be excited and you should be.  Although etiquette may be the very last thing on your mind, you should still consider it.  If you want to score a second date, you need to make sure the first is picture perfect.

When it comes to meeting for a date, you have two options.  You can pick her up or meet her at your destination.  When possible, opt for a pickup.  Even if you have to drive 15 minutes out of your way, do so.  This gets your night started off on the right foot.  If you and your date meet at the destination, offer to take her home if she took public transportation, like the bus or a taxi.

One of the most important rules of dating is to show up on time.  Whether you pickup your date or meet her there, never be late.  Even 5 minutes is too long to make your date wait.  If you are not only interested in a second date, but a long-term relationship, show up on time.  Leave early and call if you can't avoid being late.

Even if you knew a girl before your first official date, it is still here where you will make the biggest first impression.  So, make sure it is good.  You must look presentable.  This means wear something nice.  Is your lucky t-shirt covered in stains and holed?  If so, leave it at home.  Do not over-dress, but never under-dress.

The quickest way to a girl's heart on a first date is to show your interest.  An easy way to do this is with eye contact.  Always make eye contact with your woman.  This can be hard when on a date with a beautiful girl, but it is a must.  Is she talking to you?  You better be looking in her eyes.  This shows that you are paying attention to her, not her breasts or another girl across the room.

On a first date, politeness is important.  Not only do you need to be polite to your date, but to those around you.  Are you at a restaurant?  Say please and thank you to your waiter and don't start an argument or make a scene if something doesn't go your way.  Your date isn't only gauging how you treat her, but how you treat others too.

A first date is not the time to say "I love you."  Are you absolutely smitten with your date?  If so, that is good, but keep your lips sealed.  It is okay to tell a girl you really like her, but leave the love word for later in the relationship.  A first date does not translate into marriage, sex, or soul mates.  If you try to make it, you may end the evening alone and a second date will only happen in your dreams.

If you just ended a long-term relationship, you may be feeling a wide array of emotions.  You may be excited about your new date, but wondering what could have happened with your ex-girlfriend.  This is okay and a natural feeling, but don't utter a word.  Past relationships should never be discussed on a first date.  The moment you mention your ex-girlfriend, is the moment your first date is ruined.  Your woman will only think about how she compares or if she is simply just a rebound date.

Most importantly, never assume you will get sex.  Yes, some women do have sex on the first date, but not all.  You do not want to pressure your date or disappoint yourself.  For that reason, never assume you will get sex on the first date.  Just be happy with a kiss.  Your patience and understanding, should the woman want to wait, can help lead to a second date.

In short, you need to be polite and show your date respect.  By doing so, you will both have a good time.  In fact, your first date may lead to a second date, a third date, and possibly a long-term relationship.

Are you an adult who is looking for that perfect first date?  If so, know that you have many options.  This is important to keep in mind.  By first familiarizing yourself with your options, a few of which are outlined below, it will lessen the pressure.

Restaurant.  Dinner is one of the safest first dates to plan.  Everyone likes to eat.  If asking a woman you just met to dinner, opt for a safe choice.  This is a casual dining restaurant where a wide range of food is served.  Once you know more about her, like if she eats seafood or Mexican food, then opt for a specialty restaurant.

Café.  A café is considered another safe bet for a first date.  It is just like a restaurant, but with a more casual environment.  This is great if you want to spend your first date getting to know the woman.  If you opt for a first date at a café, a brunch or lunch date is best.

Bar.  Many make the mistake of assuming a bar is a great first date.  In reality, a bar is a great place to meet a girl and ask for a first date.  Bars are famous for their loud atmospheres, meaning you may not get much time to know your woman.  If you insist on sharing a few drinks, make it a nightcap, but not the date itself.

Movies.  The movie theater is another popular destination for a first date, but for teens.  If you want to see a movie with a woman, go ahead and ask.  Just know that you won't get a good opportunity to talk.  If you do opt for a movie, let her help you choose and then end the evening with dinner or a few drinks.

Concert.  Concerts are exhilarating.  If you want to show off your fun side, a concert makes a great first date.  If your date is with someone you just met, opt for a small concert, such as an outdoor concert or one at a bar.  Getting to know your date is difficult when you are two of 10,000 people, many of which may be screaming fans.

Hiking trail.  Most romance experts recommend avoiding physical activity on the first date, but try it.  If you know your date is physically active, like if you met her at the gym, it will be fun.  In fact, it may be her dream date. 

Picnic.  If you want to wow your date and show her your romantic side, a picnic is the way to go.  Make lunch yourself or purchase premade sandwiches from your local deli.  The best destination for a picnic is at a park, where you can enjoy a romantic stroll afterwards.

Zoo.  A zoo may not seem like the best first date for adults.  After all, zoos are most often associated with family outings.  Nevertheless, there are instances in which a zoo is the perfect destination for a date.  Did you meet your date at a dog park?  Do you know she is an animal lover?  If so, she may enjoy an afternoon at the zoo.

Bowling.  First dates are awkward.  You can eliminate some of that awkwardness by opting for something that is fun and exciting.  Bowling is that something.  With bowling, you can let lose and have fun. 

As you can see, you have a many options when planning a first date.  If you made casual conversation with your date before asking her out, should have some indication of her likes and dislikes.  Use this to your advantage when planning the big night.

Are you a teenager who wants to ask a girl on a first date?  If so, you may have a lot of questions?  How should I ask the girl?  What if she says no?  Where should we go?  As for asking a girl, just do it.  If so says no, move on because there are plenty of fish in the sea.  As for the date itself, you have many options.  In fact, continue reading on for a few good suggestions.

Miniature golf.  Many teens make the mistake of believing that miniature golf is a game for young kids, but it isn't.  People of all ages love a game of mini-golf, and your date should too.  Miniature golfing is a fun and very minimally active sport.  Plus, think of the possibilities if your date isn't a good golfer, get close and show her the right moves!

Visit an amusement park.  As with mini-golf, many teenagers associate amusement parks with kids and family trips.  They are more.  Depending on the size of your local amusement park, you should have roller coasters, water rides, and fun games to choose from.  If you want to wow a girl or show her your adventurous side, an amusement park is the way to go.

Go karting.  If you have a nearby go kart track in your area, visit it.  A girl doesn't have to be interested in sports or racing to enjoy an afternoon of go karting.  It is a fun and exciting adventure.  Unless you have to wait in line, you won't get much opportunity to talk with your date.  So, get to know her and make it a great night by stopping for dinner on the way home.

Visit the beach.  The beach is a great destination for a date because it has so much potential.  For starters, a day at the beach is always exciting.  Secondly, it allows you to checkout your girl's beautiful body in a bathing suit.  Some girls may automatically say no and some may even tell you it is because of the bathing suit.  You can come up with an alternative, but this is also your opportunity to complement her by saying you bet she would look beautiful.

Visit a park.  Parks are another great destination for a first date.  This is due to the casual atmosphere, which results in less pressure.  In a natural surrounding, you and your date are likely to have more fun, as well as be yourselves.  If you opt for a date at the park, pack a picnic and bring other fun supplies, such as a basketball, kite, and so forth.

Bowling.  Most cities and towns have a bowling alley; therefore, this adventurous date may be easier to plan than an afternoon of go karting or visiting an amusement park.  Bowling is a fun activity that calls for a little bit of closeness.  Celebrate your date's strike with a congratulatory hug.

Hiking.  For the most part, many recommend avoiding extreme physical activity on a first date, but it can work to your advantage.  Does the girl you like love nature or is she the active type?  If so, she may enjoy a short hike.  When planning a hiking date, choose your destination wisely.  Opt trails that take you along a beautiful waterfall or gorge or a park with a picnic area.

Watch a movie.  A movie is one of the most popular first date choices for teens.  If you do opt for a movie, follow it with dinner.  During the movie, you won't have much opportunity to talk.  Get to know your date at dinner.  Another great alternative is watching a movie at home.  This is great if dating on a budget or if you want to talk because you won't waste money on a movie or disturb other watchers.

As you can see, you have many options when planning a first date.  If you want to plan the perfect first date, ask for suggestions.  Picking an activity that is exciting, adventurous, or one your girl likes is the best way to have an awesome time.

Online dating has increased in popularity and its popularity continues to rise.  For that reason, you may turn to the internet to land a first date.  Why wouldn't you?  Online dating is easy and convenient.  Even though it is easy to talk to a girl from your computer, you may still be nervous about the first date.  If so, continue reading for a few tips on taking a relationship from the computer to the real world.

Don't ask for a date right away.  Many guys make the mistake of asking for a date online right away.  Don't do it.  Yes, your goal is to find a date and possibly start a relationship.  You may want to do this right away, but take it slow.  Get to know her first.  That is what is nice about online dating.  You can learn about her interests and know her personality before wasting too much time or money on a first date that is a disaster.

Exchange phone numbers.  Online dating services allow you to make contact through their website.  You may also turn to email or instant messaging.  This is okay, but be sure to get her phone number.  This allows to you call her and ask for a date in person.  Women love it when men actually speak the words.  As for getting a phone number from an online dating website, don't ask for it right away.  Some women are cautious about giving personal information too soon.  For that reason, wait at least a few days and then ask.  You can also ask for a cell phone number, as opposed to landline number.

Try to ask for a date over-the-phone.  As previously stated, women like to hear men ask for a date.  There is just something about hearing a voice instead of reading typed words.  In a way, asking for a date will show that you are man enough to do so in person.  It is easier to hide behind a computer, but don't let the girl think you are a chicken.  If she is unwilling to give you her phone number, she may not be interested in you.  You can still ask for a date through the service, but be polite, address her by name, and don't use short internet acronyms.

Choose a public location for the date.  Online dating is increasing in popularity, but it still has its risks and women know this.  Make her feel comfortable and safe by opting for a high trafficked public place, such as a popular restaurant.  A romantic picnic is nice, but the woman might be nervous about meeting in a secluded place.  Don't let this be the reason you are turned down.  If you later hit it off, you can end the night in private.

Do something you like.  As previously stated, online dating is quick, easy, and convenient.  With that said, just because you like a woman online, it does not guarantee you will like her in person.  It is easy for people to hide behind a computer.  In fact, you may find that your date lied to you about her age, her looks, and so forth.  That is why you should do something you like.  If you don't want to end the date early, at least you are doing something you enjoy.

Make sure you don't have her confused with someone else.  This is the most important rule of online dating.  Even if you use one online dating service, you should communicate with many women.  It can be hard to keep these women and their interests separate.  If you get a date with a woman you met online, review all forms of communication before the date.  Reread her dating profile, review your emails, and so forth.  The easiest way to ruin a first date is to confuse her with someone else.